Dear DC-Area "Salsa Teacher",
I got your messages, and thank you for your invitation. Unfortunately, I am not interested in participating in your dance groups or classes this weekend.
As you know, I dance because it is fun. However, part of that fun involves being treated with at least personal respect, if not professional respect. I know for a fact that I have earned both from you, but have received neither. Participating in your events has become a chore, and therefore, at least for right now, I no longer wish to participate.
I have known you for (at least) the past three years and have always supported you in your endeavors. You have done nothing to show your support for mine. I have tried to be open and sharing with the education that I have worked so hard to achieve. But it appears that the more I share, the more I am taken for granted, my knowledge abused, and my intentions taken out of context.
I am interested in dancing with a group of people who share my passion for dancing, for music, and for open sharing of musical ideas, thoughts, moves, style, and anything else. I have enjoyed dancing with a group of people that appear to be part of your institution, as they appear to be like-minded. If any of them wish to contact me, I will welcome them with open arms.
But I am not interested in participating in any institution that encourages discrimination, isolation, or the promotion of one (or some) individual(s) above others. Dance, particularly in a rueda, involves many individual members, working together as a team, who support each other and promote each other for each individual's strengths. A member's weaknesses are an opportunity for the team to work together to create more strengths, not to suppress, repress, or segregate.
Perhaps, after a break, I will be ready to try this again -- but not until I am assured that I will receive at least the professional and personal respect that I have earned. I certainly do not want to spend my precious free time on any group event that is not fun for all invited members.